How to Figure Out What It Is That You REALLY Want
Once you start working with the law of attraction and you nail down the basics of manifesting, something weird happens: “attracting what you want” becomes less about the ATTRACTING part (because you already know how to do that, at least some of the time) and more about what YOU actually WANT.
And more often than not (you are in for a surprise with this one), the question of “what I really want”,turns out, isn’t that easy to answer…
When that first happened to me I was puzzled. How come I don’t know what I want? Isn’t this the easier part of the equation?
So, and I have this on good authority, it isn’t.
Realizing how unlimited our potential is, in all areas of life, can lead to confusion… If we can really DO and even BE anything, what would make number 1, 2, and 3 on that list?
How to Ask Yourself
There is actually an simple way to help you figure out what it is that you a really want. 2 trick questions that should help zero in on those things that REALLY matter to you, the things that you TRULY want to have and experience.
The great thing about these questions is that they also help you understand what are you pursuing for the WRONG reasons, so you can stop doing that.
A great example of that is with work life: people often want a certain job, a promotion or to achieve work related goals, but when they get it, it makes little to no difference in their lives.
Figuring Out what You Really Want
OK, I’m going to ask you what you want to do during the next year of your life,
BUT first, I’m going to ask you to clear your head and then
A) Imagine a world where money is no object.
and B) Imagine becoming immortal within the next hour.
Now, given that you have all the time in the world and money is no object, what’s the first thing on your agenda? What’s the second? Don’t listen to the inner chatter telling you something is impossible or ridiculous. Just go with those things that make you feel good and excited.
Have Your Answer? Good
So this is the first step. Once you know what you would be doing in a world where you are not limited, it’s time to figure out how to do this thing. And often, you will find out, it’s quite easy to do that. So easy, in fact, you’ll be surprised.
How Come This Stuff WORKS?
Our rational thinking is influenced by the way we perceive our reality and life circumstances. When you change that perception, you allow what I like to call “fresh thinking”: The kind of thinking that you weren’t doing before, the inspired kind. The kind that helps you solve problems and get ahead.
Next On The Agenda – Dealing With Our Fears
Figure out what you want to do and some fears quickly follow. “What if I fail?” “I’m not smart enough” “I can’t do this right now, I first have to…” These excuses we give ourselves are just a cover up. It’s a sign that fear it running the show.
Become aware of those fears that actually run your life and you’re more than half way through to conquering them.
It sounds like a big promise, but it really isn’t. Once you know what is it that is holding you back, a world of ways and methods to deal with it unravels. It is the way of the universe to support your goals and dreams, sort of speak.
The easiest method to handle your fear is to write it down and become aware of what your thoughts are. After all, we don’t fear the present. we fear the future. And we can never REALLY know what the future holds.
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Noa is an internet marketer & blogger at MsManifesting.com. Manifesting her way into a brighter tomorrow every single day.
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